The natural instinct of a parent is to protect children from difficult things and save them from getting upset. It is very common to think that it is best not to tell your child you have breast cancer.
But however much we try to hide what is going on, even very young children know when something is wrong with the adults around them. If they are not told what is happening, then they can imagine things are even worse than they are, and may end up with fears and secrets and confusion which they cannot share with anyone.
It is best to be honest with your child, using language which is appropriate for their age. Being honest does not mean you have to tell them everything.
There is a lot of advice about talking to children about cancer, from those who are very young, to teenagers.
Visit Willow, which has advice and useful links.
Click here for the leaflet “Talking to your kids about breast cancer”
BREASTCANCER.ORG also has pages on talking to younger and older children.